Parenting is not an easy job. It takes almost the whole of a parent to raise a good kid which can lead a successful life. Sometimes parents think they are unable to do enough for their child’s academic and personal life and they mourn the failure of their kids like they themselves have failed but it is not correct. The truth is parents help their child more than they realise. Parents contribute more than anybody else in the success of their child. They work day and night, 24×7, sometimes empty stomachs just in order to make their kid’s dreams come true, so that he or she can become that person in his or her career which he or she wants to become. Kids sometimes don’t realize the level of sacrifice their parents make. We often in stories and sometimes real-life stories that parents sell everything they have to complete the academic courses of their child, so that he or she may attain his/her dream career. And School LMS and LMS portals also contribute to improving a kid’s learning but sometimes school LMS and LMS portals could also not do their magic. And after all parents are also humans and when failure strikes their child then not only the child gets hurt but his parents also get broken from inside and as a result they give up on their child. This is something very unfortunate for both- the child and his or her parents. For even parents this becomes a burden to see their child bothered in his/her academic life. It is so because as parents you know that the result could and should have been different and such imbalanced situations in the academic life of students have a very long effect on their learning and school life.
Parenting is exhausting sometimes and it gives pain also when as a parent we see our child failing and in pain. Sometimes your own kid, especially a teenager, pushes you away from him/her and doesn’t want to discuss any of his/her issues whether personal or related to school and seems frustrated and angry all the time. But here patience gathered in experience of so many years works and you don’t have to give up at all, keep trying to penetrate his/her self-created firewall and help your child as you want to. As a parent you should have ample knowledge to make a favourable learning environment around your child. You should know that schools should be safe and inclusive and if there is any issue which your child is facing then in the parents’ teacher meeting you can have a discussion over it and seek help from school management and tutors to solve it. World is not a Bollywood movie where everything becomes okay at last. So, if no one listens to you among school authorities at intermediate level then again don’t give up and make contact at a higher level like a regional office or head office. It is a matter of your child’s future; you need to make efforts tirelessly. You don’t have to start any revolution, just as a good parent you have to make efforts to create a favourable environment around your child and make it safe.
To support your child, you can listen to him/her and give him/her the chance to express his emotions and feelings, to discuss his/her several issues regarding school curriculum and teaching method, or any other issue which is becoming hurdle in his/her learning, let him/hr vent it out so that you can find out the solution and bring back the interest of your child in learning and education. It is you as parents whom your child will follow his/her whole life so, show them how to fight with difficulties of life and rise as a winner. Demonstrate your positive and negative experience in front of your child through which they can learn that getting angry, frustrated and giving up is very easy but it gives nothing but loss whereas staying calm, positive and firm in negative situations can provide you success sure and certain. As a parent, whatever you find out about your child, discuss this with tutors so as to make arrangements’ to make learning easier for your child.